Advice college dating at 30

I find myself in the unsettling position of wanting to say very conventional things like ''An 18 year old boy only has one thing in mind.'' And then I feel bad. Older guys pick on younger, more vulnerable girls because it's harder for them to say no. They mostly spent time together at school, at lunch, or met before school for coffee. I told her that I wanted to meet him before they went ''out'' anywhere. Just make sure she knows that she can call you anytime and you will pick her up. That way she might talk to you about any things she doesn't know how to handle.

Talk to your daughter about different things that can happen when she is with him and let her know she can make a choice about what she wants to do. I also tell her if he wants to ''go farther'' than she does, she absolutely has the right to say ''no''.

That was what happened in my failed first marriage. But it helps to fight, because it's good to get it out in the open rather than let it simmer. Ages: 45 and 49 Years married: 24 Occupations: Health communications consultant; owner of a translation service How did you know he was the one? I always thought he was special, more considerate than most men.

I was a "nobody can do it better than I can" person, but half the time I was wishing someone else would take it away.

She had told me about him a month ago, telling me that this really cute guy kept approaching her to talk with her. I tried talking with her about it but she was angry that I was ruining her fantasy and finally said ''Fine! '' which I trust about as much as I trust George W. Any feedback from parents who have been through this? Sign me as: conflicted mother My daughter started seeing a 15 year old boy (on the water polo team)when she was 15 and I had her keep her door open when he came over and requested that his parents do the same. I always ask her to be home by dark, no matter what she's doing, out of not wanting her to walk around alone at night because it's not safe. I offered to give him a ride home but he didn't want one.

There are some other compelling reasons for why older women are more attractive to younger guys.

And of course, it’s not a secret that women in their thirties and forties have a much higher sex driver than the ones in their twenties.

My only real concerns were my classes and my part-time job; everything else I did was for fun.

I learned a lot during my freshman year, though, and as I learned I began to focus on more productive things.